Moving house is one of the most stressful things we ever do.

Buying a house is probably the costliest financial commitment we will ever make and the whole process can seem like a lengthy nightmare from start to finish.

But, it doesn't have to be like that. Buying a property and moving into it can be an enjoyable experience if you follow a few simple rules.

It's all about being and feeling in control and being organised - and when you have these three things - YOU WILL FEEL CONFIDENT!

1. Do your homework -

Decide where you want to live; what type of property you want to live in; how much you can afford to pay.

If you are buying property with a partner, make sure you talk to each other and that you are both looking for the same things.

Do not go into this unless you have got a 100% commitment from both of you if you are a couple.

2. Start your search -

Register with Estate Agents in the area where you want to live.

Look at advertisements in local newspapers and magazines. Drive or walk around the area and notice what properties are for sale.

Go and look at properties that fall into your categories. Talk, talk, talk to your partner (if you have one), to the Estate Agent, to the current occupiers, to neighbours, to local shopkeepers etc., and get a real feel for the pros and cons of various properties and the local area.

Don't rush to buy the first property that you see.

You will "just know" when you have found the right property for you - trust your instincts.

3. Find your dream home -

When you feel you have found your ideal property, spend some time imagining yourself living there.

Do you have a family or any pets? Where will they run and play? Where will you put your computer? Do you have an extensive CD collection? Where will it go? Do you like to entertain? Is the kitchen or dining room large enough to accommodate your guests?

Do this exercise BEFORE you sign anything or hand over any money.

Go back and visit the property as many times as you can so you can be sure about what you are buying.

4. Engage trusted professionals -

Ask around to find the name of a solicitor that other people would recommend to handle your conveyancing.

Your family may have a solicitor that they have used for other property purchases.

It's worth developing a good relationship with your solicitor as they will regard your purchase as "special" and may be able to expedite matters for you.

They will also point out any legal or practical issues that your attention needs to be drawn to.

5. Engage trusted professionals -

Find a reputable removal company and leave the heavy carrying to them.

It is an additional expense, but it is well worth it in terms of reducing stress and anxiety on the day of the move.

6. Keep essentials to hand -

Make sure you know where you have packed the kettle, the tea/coffee/sugar/milk, cups and spoons, glasses, your cheque book and credit card, something to eat and a bottle of Champagne!

7. Get your bed up -

Before you get too tired on the day of the move, make sure you set your bed up as you will want somewhere comfortable to spend your first night in your dream home.

8. Don't worry -

Don't worry if you don't get everything done on the first day.

You are going to live in your dream home for quite some time, so there will be plenty of time to get things in place, and you will probably change your mind a hundred times anyway!

9. Toast the future -

Open the Champagne, kiss your partner, and toast your happy future in your new dream home. Cheers!